I am so over her complaining to me for over 4yrs about her husband. I've encouraged her for a very long time to seek actual help from the proper people but she won't. She will tell me things he does, or says and they are so not biblical!!! I've cried for her many times. She is/was (IDK anymore) my best friend for about 20ish years (since we were little kids). I finally had enough. She was complaining for years that I was the only one she could talk to, so that leads me to believe that I am the only one that knows how her relationship is with her husband. She say's she know she should leave but she wont make that step. I just recently told her parents about her marriage. And her mother cried and cried, had no idea about the bad marriage or that their daughter was so unhappy. Sometimes I feel like I wasn't a good friend because I tattled but then I can't let her waste more time being in the crappy marriage. I had to involve her parents, maybe they can help. I know they care. I just feel Like she has pinned me as the bad guy. I don't think she realizes I did it because I cared soo much for her. Still do. She hasn't talked to me since except sending me a pic of a stupid toilet. I guess she doesn't want to talk about the real problem? IDK. I can't ignore the problem even if she is trying too. It hurts. I'm hurt. I feel like I lost me best friend and we can't go back. I just want to cry and cry.

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