The idea of narcissistic abuse is bs sorry. Abuse is abuse but there isn’t like some special type of abuse only narcissists can commit. Someone could abuse you in ways that are specific to a mental or physical health condition they have, but you wouldn’t call an autistic person committing abuse in ways exclusive to their autism (which I’ve personally seen) “autistic abuse”? I feel like it ties into that thing where people designate a certain type of people as “bad people” and because they aren’t one of the “bad people” they can’t possibly commit abuse when anyone can commit abuse, actually. Also in general narcissism- specifically the actual mental illness NPD- is often caused at least partly by abuse and so it feels very ableist and hateful to imply these people are destined to commit abuse when they’re not. They’re people. They can be abusers or they might not.
Be respectful, no personal info, and no hate speech.
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