he only ever talked about himself and never really listened to anything i said no follow ups barely any acknowledgment if i didnt ask questions there would be no conversation just him rambling about his own life
when we hung out we just did whatever he wanted he full on practiced his hobbies in front of me while i sat there like an audience member wouldnt have minded if he cared even a little about my own interests but he didnt
thought maybe i was the problem maybe i just wasnt opening up enough but the more i shared the more i realized it was like talking to a wall no validation no engagement just silence or a half a## response
even driving with him was awful blasting music driving aggressively like i didnt exist couldnt even start a conversation over the noise didnt seem to care that i was literally gripping onto my seat
felt like i was just along for the ride he didnt care who was there as long as it was somebody
glad im not wasting any more time on that