"Oh, anon, (And this would be on sites I'd endorse going overseas for companionship and interaction.) Why don't you just stay in the US and go talk to women in bars, clubs, dating sites, etc?" Because a guy yesterday in broad daylight, like noon, got hit by a bus and wasn't moving. Hopefully not dead but unnerving for me. I ask a somewhat attractive woman, and it was convo distance not in her face if the guy's alright and so forth. She looks at me in horror and runs into traffic to get away