I am a visible minority and I have had enough of performative feminist bullshit. It's no better than the right's antics, and sometimes just as actively f###### harmful. The solution isn't for me to get therapy on top of therapy and a ton of medication. The solution is to pull your head out your f###### a####, put the fattening s### down, be as accountable as you expect others to be, and start practicing what you f###### preach. ALL. OF. IT. Grow the f### up too.