Trauma is not your sexual fetish. I once had a drunk woman want to "pet the wounded dog." Wouldn't be appropriate if I brought up your height, physical appearance, or just about anything else nowadays. However, fetishizing trauma and how we cope or respond is okay? How? Why?

How is this not some bullshit that needs to be shut down? Because it's a woman doing it? How TF does that support therapy or is even appropriate at all? This is how you end up with deadbeats btw.