You got a 3 year old with this guy and maybe another baby on the way. And he’s been treating you like s### since day one. He even hit you once when you just asked him to take your sick kid to the hospital. That should’ve been enough to wake you up. You’re a grown a## woman, you should know better. You do everything for him and he doesn’t give a f###. I’ve told you before, being independent isn’t bad. You need to get out for your kids, not keep wasting your life on a man who doesn’t care.