I'm finally at college and now my older sister wants to spend time with me. She's started texting and calling me, she's even coming to visit. It's like suddenly I'm someone worth spending time with. She never wanted me when we were younger, she pushed me away, and was just hurtful. I understand oldest children go through a lot, but I did too. All I wanted was for her to love me, and it felt like she never would. Now she is acting like the sister younger me wanted, and I'm angry about it.