Attack ideas, not identities
Go hard on beliefs, behavior, choices. Don’t target groups (gender, race, religion, sexuality, etc.) with slurs, dehumanization, or “all ___ are ___.”
Allowed: “My ex was controlling and hypocritical.”
Not allowed: “Women/men/feminists are trash.”
Why this rule exists:
We’ve seen a spike in posts and comments attacking women (and other groups). It’s been poisoning the well—drowning out real stories and making the space hostile. This rule keeps the focus on behavior and ideas, not identities, so more people feel safe to rant and participate.
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